God knows our hearts and minds. When a friend of mine killed himself nearly two years ago, I couldn’t fathom the state of mind one has to have to put a shotgun to his own head, let alone someone else’s. Steve killed a man and himself.
Because to NOT share it is to participate in the very thing that, in this case even the Priest was doing, which is putting asunder the marriage.
It’s about as silly as telling a child to go play in traffic so that they will obey stop signs when they are older.
Give yourself an honest assessment: Who do you follow?