Since God made sex; it is good. God wants us to have pleasurable sex with each other. The Church has spoken throughout the centuries on the importance of Eros.
Those who reject the concept or existence of God cannot, fundamentally, reject the existence of Nature and her desire to exist and create things that persist in existence.
By definition, then, any blend or some kind of infinite spectrum of sexualities that may result in some epigenetic cases or through hormonal, cultural, or environmental causes is, by Nature’s design and definition, a defect, because it is not heterosexual.
Because to NOT share it is to participate in the very thing that, in this case even the Priest was doing, which is putting asunder the marriage.
Those moments when you know you are in the right place, being who you are supposed to be.